That is probably true, but those feelings are wrapped in all this heteronormative, patriarchal bullshit that straight society has thrust upon us, and we hate you for making us feel bad about something that is better than chasing a million dragons. There's some sort of shame about being a bottom, like it makes us less manly and that straight people won't take us seriously. The weird thing is "power bottom" isn't just some stupid straight boy insult, the gays use it too. But if topping is like a merry-go-round, then bottoming is like the best fucking roller coaster you've ever been on in your life. There are also lots of tops who only like to top. There are lots of couples that are both bottoms and they take turns begrudingly topping. There are lots of guys who only like to bottom. Yes it is sometimes messy (Santorum is just not a candidate in Iowa). Yes, I don't speak for all of the homosexuals, but, come on, queen, try to tell me this isn't true! Bottoming Is Fun Let's see if you still like us after this. Now, it's time to let the straights in on some of our dirty little secrets. That's right, there are all sorts of secrets that Ted and Ned, the nice gay couple next door to you with the matching BMWs and the prim sweater sets aren't telling you, probably starting with the reason they have those bolts in the ceiling of the "den" (It's for the sling and "den" is gay for "sex room"). That doesn't mean we're still not queer radicals. Looks like barrier methods aren’t as big a barrier to dudes’ porn enjoyment as we thought.As gay men and lesbians get closer and closer to the mainstream they've often traded in their image as the queer radicals who started the Stonewall Riots for the milquetoast assimilationists who want to get married and have kids and put HRC bumper stickers on their cars. Of gay men viewing anal sex, 64.4% preferred it condomless, 29.2% didn’t care, and 6.4% preferred condoms of gay men viewing vaginal sex, those numbers were 50.5%, 45.1%, and 4.3%. Of straight guys viewing vaginal sex, 65% liked it condomless, 31.7% didn’t care, and 3.3% safety-loving guys actually preferred condoms, with similar numbers for anal sex. (The pressure many gay men feel to perform "masculinity" to attract a partner is real.) As for the straight men into gay porn, Downing notes that substantial research reveals that it’s not uncommon for men who identify as heterosexual to be attracted to or even hook up with other men (a reminder that "never ever in a million years feeling an ounce of attraction for the same sex" is not a prerequisite for being, and identifying as, straight).Īnd when it comes to safe sex in porn, while the majority of guys do prefer their porn condom-free, a sizable minority don’t care one way or the other. " Research has shown that some gay men are attracted to or find heterosexual and masculine men more attractive," a preference Downing believes gay men to enjoy watching porn performers in straight sex scenes. "Sexual attractions and behaviors are more than just identity," he tells.
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While the rate of straight men watching gay porn may seem unexpected to those outside of the research world, Downing says that his team wasn’t surprised. Bi men, meanwhile, reported watching gay porn at a rate of 96% (nearly as much as the 98.3% of gay men who reported watching gay porn) and straight porn at a rate of 88.3% (a little lower than the 98.5% of straight men who reported watching straight porn).
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Downing, PhD surveyed 821 men about their porn-viewing habits, they found that 55% of gay men reported watching opposite-gender-oriented porn in the previous six months, while 21% of straight men reported watching same-sex porn in that time frame. Gay men watch men having sex with men, and straight men just want to see naked women, right? A study on gay, straight, and bi men’s porn preferences published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior is newly challenging this notion, as well as helping to answer the question of how men really feel about seeing condom use in their adult entertainment. A common belief about gender and porn is that while women of all sexual identities can get turned on by people of all genders, men only like to watch stuff that aligns with their stated orientation.